People ask those questions a lot about hookup culture

Many people are curious about hookup culture. Indeed, these days, hookup culture has infiltrated into our daily life. They are continuously talked about by the public. Today, we gathered three questions often talked about by public about hookup culture. Interested? Just keep reading.

Does hookup culture ever affect your self-conscious? To some degree, the answer is positive. Hookup culture sometimes can indeed affect people's self-conscious. I heard many of my girlfriends complaining about why guys do not want to have a relationship with them, or girls being ghosted. In such circumstances, girls tend to blame themselves for not being the kind of women guys want to be in a relationship with. Well, that's not true.

Many guys only want to tinder hookup no matter who they meet. They are just not in the stage of their life when they want to be involved in something more serious. They might not be ready for it financially or emotionally, or they just are not mature enough to take responsibility. Therefore, girls, do not take it personally. Not your fault. This explains why we must make sure both parties are on the same page before hooking up. It can prevent hurting feelings.

Can a hookup turn into a relationship? The answer is positive definitely. But you should never have this expectation before entering a hook up dating relationship. On the one hand, the whole point of having hookup is the limitless and responsibility-free in it. When you hookup with someone, you should enjoy all the fun and pleasure in it without thinking about the consequence or influence it might bring. If you expect to turn a hookup into a serious relationship, then it's not a pure hookup and you can't possibly enjoy it.

On the other hand, if you bear such thought in your mind, there is huge chance that you are probably going to be disappointed. So many girls have this thought of reverting a playboy, thinking them to be the one for them. However, the truth is some playboys cannot be reverted by anyone. It's just not what they want no matter who you are and who they meet. Let's just face the fact and do not set yourself on fire.

Is STDs a topic usually talked about? Well, the truth is there aren't many people would talk about STDs before they hookup with each other, because most people consider it a little bit awkward. However, we do need to develop such awareness these days, because so many people have had STDs before and there are some people don't even realize they have it. That person might be you as well. 

Therefore, if you are asking this question and you have such awareness, that's good and you should start by getting a test yourself. On the other hand, we should be brave to ask such question before hooking up starting now. I believe eventually this question is going to become as a routine before every hookup.